Traveling solo can be one of the most liberating and transformative experiences you’ll ever have. You move on your own time, explore what you want, and have the freedom to connect deeper with yourself and the world around you. But let’s be real… it’s not always sunshine and picture-perfect views. There are real challenges that come with solo travel, especially as a woman, a content creator, or someone navigating new spaces with limited resources.
So let’s break down the real issues that come with traveling alone and how you can overcome them with confidence, clarity, and a few hacks I’ve learned along the way.
Feeling Unsafe or Vulnerable
Let’s talk facts. As solo travelers.. especially women, and especially Black women, safety is always top of mind. You’re alone in a place where you might not speak the language, don’t know anyone, and may not understand the local customs.
How To Overcome It
Do tons of research about the areas you plan on visiting. Prioritize hotels and Airbnbs with high reviews, security features, and great host communication. Pinterest, travel blogs, Reddit, and Facebook travel groups are your best friends!
Also stay aware of your surroundings, kept your belongings close, and make sure someone knows your travel itinerary at all times. Share your location with a trusted friend or family member. Use apps like Life360 or Find My iPhone.
And, just in case, always keep a fully charged phone, portable charger, and local emergency contacts saved in your phone.
The Fear of Loneliness
I know you’ve probably seen all those Insta posts of solo travelers living their best lives on beaches or in cool cities, and thought, “That’s cute… but what about when I feel lonely?”
The idea of being on your own, not having a squad to talk to when you need a little pick-me-up, can feel intimidating. But guess what? I learned that loneliness doesn’t always have to be negative, it’s actually an opportunity to connect with yourself.
Here’s How To Overcome It
Join group tours or excursions. It’s an easy way to meet people for a few hours (or days).
Turn that loneliness into a time for self-reflection and embrace the beauty of your own company. Take long walks, meditated in new places, and find joy in small, solo moments. Trust me, there’s nothing like soaking in the beauty of a new place with no distractions.
Use your phone notes or camera to capture your thoughts and experiences in real-time. Create your own community through content. Film a “Dinner for One” vlog, or journal your thoughts for your audience. You’d be surprised how many people are inspired by your transparency.
The “What If” Anxiety
We’ve all been there… overthinking every little thing before you even step foot in the airport. What if something goes wrong? What if I get lost? What if I end up in a dangerous situation?
Traveling alone can bring on anxiety, especially if you’re someone who likes to be prepared for every scenario. But here’s the thing: the more you overthink, the less you actually experience.
Here Are Ways You Can Overcome It
I started prepping for the worst-case scenario but also accepted that I couldn’t control everything. The key is not to let the “what-ifs” paralyze you… take them into account, but don’t let them hold you back.
Create a travel plan with flexible timing, so you can adapt if things don’t go as expected. Flexibility is your best friend when you’re solo.
Navigating New Places Alone
When you’re exploring a new city or country on your own, it can feel overwhelming. Cultural differences are part of the excitement of solo travel, but they can also be overwhelming. The streets are unfamiliar, the signs might be in a different language, and you’re trying to figure out the local transportation system. It can leave you feeling like, “Why didn’t I just book a group trip?”
How To Overcome It
Educate yourself about the destination before you arrive, so you could be prepared for cultural differences. Learned some key phrases, study the customs, and keep an open mind.
I learned to lean into the discomfort and see it as a way to truly experience a place. I made it a mission to get lost sometimes, and trust me, some of my best travel moments came from taking random turns. I used local apps like Google Maps and downloaded offline maps. And when I got a little nervous, I asked locals for directions… everyone’s so much friendlier than you think!
Travel Burnout and Overplanning
When you’re alone, you feel like you have to do it all. But overbooking yourself with sightseeing, content shooting, and logistics will drain you quickly — especially with no one to help you decompress.
Ways to Overcome It:
- Solo travel is a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and growth. Sure, it comes with its challenges, but the rewards far outweigh the struggles. Those moments will help shape you into a more confident traveler. Once I stopped focusing on the challenges and started embracing the journey, everything clicked.
- Build “do nothing” days into your itinerary. You don’t have to be out every day for content.
- Automate some logistics. Use booking sites like GetYourGuide, Viator, or Klook to plan in advance.
- Use tools like Notion or Google Docs to create a digital itinerary — drop your confirmation emails, locations, and content shot list in one place.
Solo travel is a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and growth. Sure, it comes with its challenges, but the rewards far outweigh the struggles. Those moments will help shape you into a more confident traveler. Once I stopped focusing on the challenges and started embracing the journey, everything clicked.
Cost and Budgeting Solo
Solo travelers cover the entire cost.. no one to split the Uber, hotel, or meal with. And if you’re a creator just starting out, the expenses add up fast.
Here’s What To Do:
- Pitch for partnerships with hotels, restaurants, or excursion companies (even in exchange for content at first).
- Use loyalty programs and travel credit cards to earn points and perks.
- Track your expenses. Use apps like Trail Wallet or TravelSpend.
- Create digital products to sell while you travel. Your expertise is valuable — whether it’s an itinerary guide, pitching template, or travel planner.
Solo travel will stretch you in ways you didn’t expect. It’ll teach you how strong, smart, resourceful, and independent you really are. You’ll make memories you’ll cherish forever… and create content that not only inspires others but builds your brand along the way.
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